What I Know About Life 569.3
The older I get, the less I know, but I know some things:
- I know I'm a work in progress and there will always be a gap between who I am and who I want to be.
- I know I don't have to be sick to get better, and every day brings opportunities to improve my life and my character.
- I know it's easier to talk about integrity than to live it, and the true test is my willingness to do the right thing even when it costs more than I want to pay.
- I know character is more important than competence.
- I know it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it.
- I know I often judge myself by my best intentions and most noble acts, but I'll be judged by my last worst act.
- I know I can't control what will happen to me, but I have a lot to say about what happens in me.
- I know pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional.
- I know attitudes, both good and bad, are contagious.
- I know winning is more than coming in first, and there's no real victory without honor.
- I know it takes a conscientious effort to be kind, but kindness changes lives.
- I know neither gratitude nor forgiveness comes naturally; both often require acts of will.
- I know real success is being significant.
- I know happiness is deeper and more enduring than either pleasure or fun, and I'm generally as happy as I'm willing to be.
- I know the surest road to happiness is good relationships, and the best way to have good relationships is to be a good person.
This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.

Comments
Another good one. K
Posted by: Anonymous | June 3, 2008 11:22 PM
"I know it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it."
It's true. My mom has always said this to me, and after losing her trust, she would always repeat this. I myself have experienced that in a relationship. It is extremely difficult.
Sometimes it's so hard that you don't know what to believe in anymore, and it only becomes harder if you don't try.
No matter how harsh the truth is, it is just better to say it and have a trusting, open relationship with family, friends, and/or a partner.
Posted by: Stephanie Sanchez | June 4, 2008 10:44 AM
I would like to hear you address gossip in the workplace. I've seen it harm people, and it would be great to know how and when to step away from it.
Posted by: Rhona Brenner | June 4, 2008 11:21 AM
I just want to reply that I am really enjoying, finding encouragement and comfort from your material. Thank you.
Posted by: Carl Gentry | June 6, 2008 6:43 AM